As ladies grow older, it’s common for bodies to change, sometimes leading to a fuller midsection. Heather, an ex-model from the 80s, is all about celebrating her own midsection and inspiring women to love their curves and feel great about themselves.
We know eating well and staying active are essential, but sometimes those stubborn “bulges” stick around. Rather than stressing over them, Heather’s got some fun and stylish tricks to dress fabulously. Let’s dive in:
DON’T: Wear too clingy clothes (especially horizontal stripes)
Opting for clothing with horizontal stripes might unintentionally draw attention to your waistline, as these stripes tend to create an illusion of widening. This effect becomes more pronounced, especially if the top is overly clingy, accentuating areas you might prefer not to highlight.
DO: Wear shapewear
Absolutely, shapewear is a total game-changer. When you use shapewear that focuses on tummy control, it opens up a world of possibilities to flaunt the outfits you adore. Not only will you see how much better your clothes fit, but you might also feel a boost in confidence and comfort.
Think of it as an investment, not just in your wardrobe, but in feeling fantastic about yourself.
DO: Wear high-waisted pants
You’ll love high-waisted pants made from stretchy, top-notch material—they work wonders in hiding the midsection, especially when you go for darker shades to amp up that slimming effect.
Ditch those low-waisted, tight-fitting pants—high-waist, stretchy ones are the way to go for a flattering look.
DON’T: Wear “hip hugger” jeans
While hip-hugging jeans might look great on younger women, they don’t always have that same flattering touch as women age. Instead of hiding a tummy, they tend to highlight it.
If you haven’t yet, it might be time to say goodbye to those hip-hugging jeans.
DON’T: Tuck t-shirts in
Fully tucking in your shirt might seem like a simple move, but it can inadvertently shine a spotlight on that muffin top and other areas you probably didn’t intend to showcase.
It’s like putting a magnifying glass on parts of your body you might prefer to keep more discreet.
DO: Tuck shirt slightly at the side
Try a partial tuck at the side, letting some of the top hang loosely in the front. This technique hides your tummy while giving off a chic ruching effect.
What you get is a longer, angled appearance that just works wonders.
DO: Buy tops with extra ruching
Certain tops are crafted to look like they have extra folds, cleverly hiding any extra folds you might want to conceal. But here’s the beauty of this style—it’s not just trendy, it also lets you breathe comfortably without having to constantly hold in your tummy.
Plus, these tops are super cute and right on trend!
DO: Wear a light camisole under clothing
These tops are amazingly light, giving you support without that tight shapewear sensation. No more feeling like you’re trapped in something that limits your movements.
And the best part? Their lightweight design keeps you feeling comfy and cool without overheating.
DO: Wear an overtop
Overtops are an excellent pick—they’re breezy, fashionable, and adaptable. Mix up the colors, choose long sleeves for colder days, or opt for sleeveless styles in the heat of summer.
They’re more than just a clothing item; they’re a confidence booster and a perfect way to add flair to your outfit.
DO: Elongate your look
Here’s a trick: Match your outfit with heels that complement it, especially when you’re rocking that stylish overtop. Try to coordinate the colors of your base with the overtop, achieving a seamless, matching look.
Kitten heels not only boost your confidence but also give off an utterly adorable vibe.
DO: Wear an empire waist
Lots of blouses and dresses come with an empire waist, allowing you to tie them in various ways according to your comfort and style choices.
Whether you prefer a snug or looser fit, especially after a delicious dinner with friends, it’s all about feeling great and being able to breathe comfortably.
DON’T: Wear oversized clothing
While oversized clothes might seem like the solution to conceal specific areas, they might not always do it in the most flattering way. Surprisingly, instead of hiding those parts, they can sometimes have the opposite effect, making you appear larger than you’d like them to.
It’s like they draw attention to those areas rather than giving you the sleek look you’re after.
DON’T: Tuck a shirt into a tight skirt
If you’re aiming to disguise a fuller midsection, tucking your shirt into a tight skirt might not be the best tactic.
Instead of hiding the midsection, it might accidentally bring more attention to it and emphasize any bulges you’d rather not highlight.
DO: Tie knot with a “ruched” shirt
This option is a winner. The ruching works wonders in hiding the tummy, while the top gracefully drapes over the skirt, keeping the focus away from your midsection.
For extra coverage and to further conceal your tummy, you can pull it down a bit more—it’s a simple tweak for added assurance.
DON’T: Wear a shapeless dress
Black is often praised for its slimming effect, and there’s truth to that. But when combined with a shapeless design, it’s a different tale.
It can give the impression that you’re wrapped in a sack or an oversized blanket, missing the chance to highlight your figure as you might want.
DO: Wear dresses that add shape with “ruching”
Ruching keeps popping up in this article for a good reason—it works wonders. Just compare how much it transforms compared to that shapeless black dress. And guess what?
You can find these in all sorts of colors to match your style perfectly.
DON’T: Break up color with a short jacket
High-waisted jeans alongside a moto jacket might seem like a fantastic pairing, and there’s definitely merit to it. However, this combo can create a noticeable line along your torso that inadvertently brings attention to the midsection you’re working to conceal.
It’s like it highlights that area instead of giving you the sleek, streamlined look you’re aiming for.
DO: Wear a solid color under a short jacket
Opting for a solid-colored garment underneath the moto jacket can work wonders. This choice creates a clean, uninterrupted vertical line, amplifying the jacket’s style while effectively managing any bulges or areas you’d prefer to keep more discreet.
It’s like creating a sleek canvas that complements the jacket’s edgy vibe while giving you a more streamlined silhouette.
DON’T: Wear bulky clothing
While this sweater might be adorable, and you’ll find similar ones out there, they often come with a bit of bulkiness. This doesn’t quite fit the goal of achieving a slimmer look, plus, they’re not the most cooperative when it comes to tucking them in neatly.
It’s like they add more volume than you’d prefer, making it a bit challenging to achieve that sleek silhouette you’re aiming for.
DO: Wear lighter weight you can tuck in slightly
You don’t need to ditch sweaters altogether, and you can still rock your favorite colors. Go for lighter shades that you can easily tuck in when you want.
Pairing them with a long necklace is a great move—it directs attention downwards, creating a more slender look.
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