How to Make Him Fall in Love with You Faster
Do you ever instantly get a gut feeling about someone as soon as you meet them?
That feeling isn’t because of anything they’ve said or done. It’s about the vibe you get from their facial expression, tone of voice, or the way they carry themselves.
Interestingly, research has shown that our first impressions of people are often pretty accurate.
The truth is, you pick up on certain things about a person the moment you meet them. These are silent signals you’re reacting to without even realizing it.
If you’re good at reading people, it might not surprise you that men and women notice different signals when they’re around someone they’re potentially interested in.
Keep reading to find out about a special signal you’re sending to men all the time, even if you don’t realize it.
It might not be what you think.
Turns out, there’s a certain type of body language that men just can’t overlook.
This signal can either start romantic interest or push him away, based on the nonverbal messages you’re sending.
Curious to know what it is?
Men Are Extremely Sensitive to Something in Your Body Language That You Would Never Expect.
a lot of women ask me, wondering about the exact words to make a man feel attracted to them. However, sparking real love involves more than just words.
Actually, Conveying the appropriate non-verbal signals is essential in drawing the attention of the kind of man you desire..
If you’ve noticed that men show interest but fail to connect with you on a deeper emotional level, I believe I have a clue to the puzzle.
It’s probable that, without realizing it, you’re emitting conflicting cues through your gestures and demeanor, sparking this confusion.
With the wrong signal, you end up with this:
- Getting attention from guys you’re not into.
- Feeling attraction at first, but then it disappears with the guy you actually wanted to catch.
- Watching the spark and excitement slowly fade away in your current relationship.
However, with just a small change, you could be sending the right signal consistently. And then, you’d start seeing results more like:
- Passion that grows stronger the more time you spend together.
- A man who obviously wants to look out for you.
- A profound sense of closeness as he shares his deepest thoughts and feelings with you.
The difference can be dramatic. And it all comes down to this one signal I’m about to show you.
In order to explain this signal, think of yourself as a radio tower.
You are constantly broadcasting a message to the men in your life through your actions and presence, and there’s one aspect he’s always alert to.
That’s because men have emotional “antennas” designed specifically to detect this one kind of signal.
Ready to find out which signal I’m talking about? Ok, here it is. He reads your nonverbal cues to find out where you “rank him” compared with other men.
Through the way you act around him, he’s trying to decipher whether you respect him, see him as someone significant, or if he’s merely another acquaintance to you. Does she respect me? Or am I just her play thing?
Does she look up to me in some ways? Does she value me compared to other men? Or is she just settling?
Why are men so sensitive to this one signal?
Because, oddly enough, this signal tells him how you compare him to other men. So it influences how he feels about himself whenever he’s around you.
And it’s amazing how much this one signal affects his emotions.
You see, in relationships, people don’t tell us what we really want to know. We have to listen to what’s written between the lines.
This kind of “listening” determines how we feel about each person we meet. And when it comes to romantic relationships, it tells us far more than spoken words.
Now tell me this. Which man would you rather commit to for life?
A man who compliments your beauty but seems to have difficulty keeping his eyes off other women? Or a man who is reserved with his compliments, but seems to have eyes only for you?
The truth is, no one wants to end up with someone who is just settling. Instead, you want to feel desired.
Men are no different. But what makes men feel desired is very different from what makes women feel desired.
For example, research shows men often confuse love and respect. A man does not want to be loved by a romantic partner unless she also holds him in high regard compared with other men.
Otherwise, it just feels like motherly love. That’s not what he wants. It’s not how he wants to perceive himself in his primary relationship.
And that’s why…
Women often send mixed signals to the guy they’re interested in without even knowing it.
It happens accidentally. And I have to tell you, it’s not your fault.
Society has changed too fast for men and women to adapt to the rapid changes. We are left scrambling.
In nearly every culture there used to be a clear set of expectations. Those expectations guided men and women through the process of connecting with a lifelong partner.
Demonstrations of mutual admiration were built into the process of courtship.
But those clear expectations are a thing of the past. These days, each couple has to invent their own path, dancing around unspoken expectations and feelings of uncertainty.
And there’s something that often gets lost in our modern version of courtship.
I’m talking about the ancient art of communicating desire through the language of admiration. It’s where the phrase, “You have an admirer” came from.
He doesn’t want you to settle.
He wants to feel like you see him as the ultimate catch.
Otherwise, it deflates his ego. And with it, his passion for the relationship deflates too.
He just can’t picture himself with a woman who looks up to other men more than she looks up to him.
But this is where things get confusing.
Many women want to make their man feel loved.
But a woman’s idea of loving communication is very different than a man’s.
How do you communicate your true feelings to a man? And why are men so sensitive to tiny signals about where you rank him compared with other men?
To dive a little deeper into that particular question, I put together a video presentation on the topic.
It explains the most powerful signals you can use to grab a man’s attention.
After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn how much control they have over a man’s self-esteem.
And even more surprised by how easy it is to make someone cherish you and want to invest in the relationship.
Many of us have a tendency to buy gifts of the sort we would like to receive ourselves. It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we want to be loved.
So you make him feel special. Yet he seems unaffected by that. You speak your own native love language to him. Apparently, he speaks another.
But I’m here to tell you about one incredible, universal method you can use to grab his attention by showing that you get what he craves most.
Click here now to discover an unfair advantage with men. Help him to finally see you as the one.
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