A man falls in love with you because he knows he can be himself around you. He falls in love with you because he feels secure sharing his deepest, private emotions with you.
He feels this way because he knows that you can manage your emotions. He can detect that. And because he detects that at the most subconscious level, he begins to crave your company, your touch, your affection. He might not even understand why he feels this way.
Once a man feels secure around you, he starts to crave your company, your touch, and your affection. He might not even understand why he feels this way. All he knows is that there’s something unique about you that he doesn’t experience with any other woman in his life. He’s in love.
He wants to embrace you and keep you forever.
This is the “hidden psychology” of men and love.
I say it’s hidden because it’s little-understood by women (AND men). It’s rare that either you or he will know exactly WHY he feels captivated by you and wants to get close to you and pursue you for something serious and long-lasting.
But first..
I wanted to take a moment and introduce myself…likely you’re wondering who “I am” and what I have to offer you about love and relationships.
Yes, I’m a professional relationship coach, a former crisis counselor, and through my eBook, programs, and newsletter, I’ve assisted thousands of women in succeeding in love by teaching them the Tools I’ve developed and refined with my clients – Tools that work efficiently and effectively to transform a struggling love life into Happy Ever After.
Actions speak louder than words:
The Perfect Gift for a Man Is a Need He Can Fill
- If you had the chance to gift your man something truly special, something that aligns with his deepest desires, what would you choose? Imagine gifting him something that not only brings him joy but also fulfills his innermost yearning.
- The most impactful gifts are those that significantly boost a person’s overall happiness and satisfaction with life. These are the gifts that resonate on a deeper level, beyond the fleeting joy of material possessions.
- Interestingly, it’s often the case that a man finds the greatest happiness in gaining the genuine respect and admiration of others for his abilities, especially his capacity to provide and protect. This recognition taps into a basic human desire to feel important and needed, enhancing his sense of self-worth.
- However, this crucial drive to feel essential is frequently absent in modern relationships, leaving a void that can impact the relationship’s depth and fulfillment.
- But, there are women who, through insight and understanding, know exactly how to trigger this desire in their partners again and again. They have a knack for making their men feel feel happier and more committed than ever before, employing subtle yet effective methods. This not only elevates his happiness but fortifies the relationship with a renewed sense of commitment and closeness. Curious? I was too. Read more on how to make him feel loved and needed.
Make him see YOU as “the prize.
You Can Flip on a Man’s “Obsession Switch” by Making Him See Romance as a Game He Can Win.
- Guys inherently enjoy competition; it’s an integral part of their psychological makeup. From the early days of competing in sports and games on the playground, this competitive spirit helps shape their interactions. As they mature, this drive doesn’t fade; instead, it shifts towards professional achievements, physical fitness, the acquisition of status symbols, or the pursuit of diverse adventures. This foundational aspect of male socialization underscores the importance of competition and achievement in their lives.
- Imagine then, the transformative potential of redirecting this deeply ingrained competitive drive towards fostering and deepening the bond he shares with you. Envision his relentless pursuit of success, now harmoniously aligned with the goals and growth of your relationship. This isn’t about making the relationship a battleground but rather leveraging a natural inclination towards striving and achieving in a way that benefits the partnership.
- This is entirely within reach by engaging a specific mechanism within his natural response system. By flipping this switch, you subtly reframe his perspective, positioning the relationship with you as not just another challenge, but the ultimate challenge. It’s about making him see being with you, winning your heart, and building a life together as the highest badge of honor and achievement in his quest to prove his worth and capabilities as a man.
Related:
What it means when…a man stops trying.
- he stopped initiating
- He response my texts, but only if I send him one first.
- losing his passion
- waning interest
- you know in your gut something has changed
- But this situation is not actually as hopeless as it seems.
- Identifying the Void: In many relationships, there’s a hidden void that might not be immediately obvious. It’s a need that men have, deeply ingrained yet often overlooked. This gap can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction or disconnection, not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of fulfillment of a fundamental need.
- The Obsession Explained: This void is tied to a universal obsession among men—a drive for a sense of purpose and recognition that’s rarely discussed openly. By understanding and tapping into this hidden obsession, you can steer your relationship towards greater intimacy and satisfaction. It’s about acknowledging and valuing his inherent desires, transforming the way he engages with you and the relationship.
- Reigniting His Drive: When a man’s core needs are unmet, his commitment may wane, not out of disinterest, but because he lacks a meaningful way to express this deep-seated obsession. Learning how to unlock and channel this desire can reinvigorate your relationship. It encourages him to invest more fully, not just for his own fulfillment, but for the health and beauty of the bond you share.
Did you just go through a breakup?
Did you just experience the heartache of a breakup?
In the vast majority of situations, believe it or not, there’s a singular phrase that has the power to shift his entire perspective.
This phrase is more than just words; it’s a powerful sentiment that alters his view of you and your place in his life. What makes it incredibly effective is its undeniable impact—it’s something he can’t simply shrug off, rationalize away, or ignore.
Imagine crafting a message, so compelling, that all you need to do is send it through a text, whisper it during a call, or share it face-to-face, and then witness the transformation. This isn’t about manipulation; it’s about communication so clear and potent that it reaches the core of his being.
This could be your most potent tool in healing your relationship. It’s the key to not just winning him back but securing a future where he stays, deeply connected to you.
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